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രാമായണം ---ജീവിതസന്ദേശങ്ങള്
ഈശ്വരചൈതന്യം തന്നെ ഭൂമിയില് മനുഷ്യനായി
അവതരിച്ച് മനുഷ്യബന്ധങ്ങളും ബന്ധനങ്ങളും അതിലെ സുഖദുഖങ്ങളുമനുഭവിച്ചുകൊണ്ടുതന്
സത്യം,ധര്മ്മം എന്നിവ പരിപാലിക്കാന് ഒരഅവതാരപുരുഷനായ ശ്രീരാമനുപോലും മഹത്തായ ത്യാഗം ചെയേണ്ടി വന്നു...
ഇതു നല്ല മനസ്സും ദുഷ്ടന്മാരുടെ ഉപദേശം കേട്ടാല് ചിലപ്പോള്
മാറും....നല്ലവര് തിന്മയുടെ വഴിയില് ചലിച്ചാല് നാശമായിരിക്കും ഫലം...ഇത്
'കൈകേയി ' മന്ഥര 'മാരില് നിന്ന് പഠിക്കാം...
ജീവിതത്തില്
ആര്ക്കേലും വാക്ക് കൊടുത്തിട്ടുണ്ടെങ്കില് അതെത്രകാലം കഴിഞ്ഞാലും
എന്തൊക്കെ സംഭവിച്ചാലും പാലിക്കപ്പെടണം എന്നത് ദശരഥനില് നിന്ന്
പഠിക്കാം....
വാഗ്ദാനം ചെയ്യുമ്പോള് പരിണിതഫലം സൂക്ഷ്മമായി ചിന്തിക്കാത്തതാണ് ദശരഥന് പറ്റിയ പിഴവ്...
അച്ഛന്റെ വാക് പാലിക്കേണ്ടത് മകനിലൂടെയാണ് ...നാം പൊതുവേ അറിയപ്പെടുന്നത്
ഇന്ന വ്യക്തിയുടെ മകന് എന്ന നിലയിലാണ്..ശ്രീരാമന് ഇത്
പ്രാവര്ത്തികമാക്കി ...സ്വന്തം സുഖ സൌകര്യങ്ങള് ത്യജിച്ചു
ശ്രീരാമനോടൊപ്പം ഇറങ്ങിത്തിരിച്ച ലക്ഷ്മണന് സാഹോദര്യബന്ധത്തിന്റെ
തിളങ്ങുന്ന മാതൃകയാണ്...തന്നിലര്പ്പിച്ച ഉത്തരവാദിത്തം
,ഉത്തരവാദിത്വപ്പെട്ട കൈകളിലേക്ക് കൊടുക്കാന് പോയ "ഭരതന്റെ" വിശാല മനസ്സ്
പ്രശംസനീയമാണ്...ഉത്തരവാദിത്വം എല്ക്കെണ്ടിവന്നപ്പോള് പതറാതെ പിതാവിന്
തുല്യനായ ജ്യേഷ്ടന്റെ 'പാദുക'ത്തെ സാക്ഷിനിര്ത്തി ഭരണം ഏറ്റെടുത്ത ഭരതന്
രാമായണത്തിലെ ഉജ്ജ്വല അവതാരമാണ്...തനിക്കു അര്ഹിക്കാത്ത രാജ്യഭാരം
വന്നുചേര്ന്നപ്പോള് അതിനു കാരണക്കാരിയായ സ്വന്തം അമ്മയോടുപോലും എതിര്ത്ത
ഭരതന്റെ 'ഭാരതീയധര്മ്മബോധം' തിളക്കമേറിയതായിമാറി...
ഭര്ത്താവിന്റെ കൂടെ കാട്ടില് സുഖദുഖങ്ങളനുഭവിക്കാന് പോയ
'സീത'ഭാര്യാധര്മ്മത്തിന്റെ പ്രതീകമാണ്...'സുഖത്തിലും ദുഖത്തിലും
ഭര്ത്താവിനോടൊപ്പം' എന്ന ഭാരതീയ പൈതൃകസന്ദേശമാണിത് ...കാനനവാസത്തിലെ
വേദനയിലും ദുഖത്തിലും നന്മനിറഞ്ഞ അറിവുകള് സ്വീകരിക്കാനും,തിന്മകളെ
നശിപ്പിക്കുവാനും,ശ്രീരാമലക്ഷമണ ന്മാര്ക്ക്
കഴിഞ്ഞിരുന്നു..അസുരശക്തികളെ ഇല്ലായ്മചെയ്യാന് ഈ വനവാസം ആവശ്യമായിരുന്നു
എന്ന സന്ദേശം ഇതില് ഉള്കൊള്ളുന്നു...എല്ലായിടത്തും അവര് വസിച്ചത് ആശ്രമങ്ങളിലായിരുന്നു...എളിമയുട െ
മൂര്ത്തിമദ് ഭാവമായ രാമന് ഈ ജീവിതം ഒരിക്കലും വേദന ഉളവാക്കുന്നതായിരുന്നില്ല...
ധാര്മ്മികശക്തികള്ക്ക് പ്രകൃതിയിലെ ജീവജാലങ്ങളും സഹായകരമാകുമെന്നതിന്റെ
തെളിവാണ് "ജടായു " എന്ന പക്ഷി...പത്നീവിരഹദുഖത്തിലും 'ജടായു' എന്ന
ചെറുജീവിയുടെ അന്തിമകര്മ്മങ്ങള് ചെയ്യാന് തയ്യാറായ രാമന്റെ 'ഭൂതദയ'
അവസ്മരണീയമായി നിലനില്ക്കുന്നു...ലക്ഷ്യപ്രാപ ്തിയുടെ
പൂര്ത്തീകരണത്തിന് നന്മയുടെ മാര്ഗ്ഗനിര്ദേശങ്ങള് ഏതുഭാഗത്തുനിന്നു
ലഭിച്ചാലും അത് സ്വീകരിക്കേണ്ടതാണ് എന്ന് ശബരി,കബന്ധന് , ജടായു എന്നിവരുടെ
മാര്ഗ്ഗനിര്ദേശങ്ങള് രാമന് സ്വീകരിച്ചതില്നിന്നു
വെളിവാക്കുന്നു...ഈശ്വരീയ ശക്തിയോടൊപ്പം പലരുടെയും സഹായം നേടേ
നേടേണ്ടതിന്റെ ആവശ്യകത - ശ്രീരാമലക്ഷ്മണന്മാര് സുഗ്രീവന്റെയും മറ്റും
സഹായം അധര്മ്മിയായ രാവണനെ നേരിടാന് ലഭ്യമാക്കിയതിലൂടെ
വ്യക്തമാക്കുന്നു... ചില സേവനങ്ങള് സ്വീകരിക്കുമ്പോള് അനുസൃതമായ
പ്രത്യുപകാരങ്ങളും ചെയ്യേണ്ടിവരും...'ബാലീ'നിഗ്രഹത ്തിലൂടെ
സുഗ്രീവനെ രാജാവാക്കി വാഴിക്കേണ്ടിവന്നത് ഇതിനാലാണ്..ചെയ്യുന്ന
കാര്യങ്ങള് എല്ലാം സമൂഹത്തിന്റെ മുന്നില് ന്യായീകരിച്ചു
കൊള്ളണമെന്നില്ല.ഇരട്ടിശക്തിശാല ിയാകുന്ന
'ബാലി'യെ ഒളിയമ്പേയത് വീഴ് ത്തേണ്ടിവന്നപ്പോള് , അടുത്തജന്മത്തില്
വേടനായി ജനിച്ചു തിരിച്ചു അപ്രകാരം ചെയ്യാന് അവസരം നല്കുമെന്ന്
ശ്രീരാമന് വാഗ് ദാനം കൊടുത്തതും ശ്രെദേയമാണ് ....ശ്രീരാമന് പരിമിതികളുള്ള
ഒരു പച്ചമനുഷ്യനായ് ജന്മമെടുത്ത അവതാരമാണ്...
വളരെ ശാന്തനും
വിനയശീലനുമായ ഹനുമാന്റെ ശക്തിയെക്കുറിച്ച് പറഞ്ഞു പ്രോത്സാഹിച്ചപ്പോള്
താന് അസാധാരണശക്തിയുടെ ഉടമയാണെന്ന ബോധം കൈവരുന്നു...എല്ലാവരിലും
വ്യത്യസ്തമായ ശക്തികള് അഥവാ കഴിവുകള് ഉറങ്ങിക്കിടക്കുന്നു...അവയെ
ഉത്തേജിപ്പിച്ചാല് അസാദ്ധ്യത്തെയും സാദ്ധ്യമാക്കാം...ഇതു കാര്യവും
തീരുമാനിക്കുന്നതിന് മുംബ് എല്ലാ വിവരങ്ങളും ശേഖരിക്കുക എന്ന സന്ദേശമാണ്
ശ്രീരാമന് ഹനുമാനെ ലങ്കയിലേക്ക് അയച്ചതിലൂടെ വെളിവാക്കുന്നത്...സീതാദേവിയെ
താന് സന്ദര്ശിച്ചതിന്റെ തെളിവായി സീതയുടെ മോതിരം കൊണ്ടുവന്നു ഹനുമാന്
....ഇതു കര്മ്മവും,അത് എവിടെ വെച്ച് ചെയ്താലും അതിനു തെളിവുകളും രേഖകളും
ഉണ്ടാക്കണമെന്ന സന്ദേശം ഇതില് ഉള്ക്കൊള്ളുന്നു ...ഒരു
രാഷ്ട്രഭരണാധികാരിക്ക് വ്യക്തിധര്മ്മത്തെക്കാള് രാഷ്ട്രധര്മ്മമാണ്
പ്രധാനമെന്ന് തെളിയുക്കുന്നതാണ് 'സീതാപരിത്യാഗം' ചെയ്ത ശ്രീരാമന്റെ
ജീവിതസന്ദേശം...
അസുരശക്തിയുടെ നിഗ്രഹത്തിനായി അവതാരമെടുത്ത
ശ്രീരാമനും ,സീതയും കാട്ടിലേക്ക് പോകേണ്ടത് ആവശ്യമായതിനാലും,അതിലൂടെ
രാവണവധം സാദ്ധ്യമാക്കേണ്ടാതിനുമാണ് 'മന്ഥര'യും ,'കൈകേയി'യും ദശരഥന്റെ
വരങ്ങളും,ഭരതനുമെല്ലാം വെറും നിമിത്തങ്ങളായി ഭവിച്ചത്...നാം എന്തെല്ലാം
ചെയ്യണമെന്നും,നമ്മെക്കൊണ്ട് എന്തെല്ലാം ചെയ്യിക്കണമെന്നും
നിശ്ചയിക്കുന്നത് ഈ മഹാശക്തിയാണ്...അത് നിറവേറ്റാന് ഇതെല്ലാം സംഭവിച്ചേ
തീരൂ...ഇതാണ് നിയതി...കാലമെത്തുമ്പോള് എല്ലാം ഉപേക്ഷിച്ച് പോകേണ്ടവരാണ്
നാമെന്ന രാമായണത്തിലെ അന്ത്യസന്ദേശം,എന്നും എല്ലാവരുടെയും
സ്മരണയിലുണ്ടായിരിക്കട്ടെ..!!!
~~~~~Sreenath Vanmelil
Eat More Fruit and Vegetables
Venu Haridas via yahoogroups.com
Note: One serve of fruit is 150 grams (equal to 1
medium-sized apple; 2 smaller pieces (e.g. apricots); 1 cup of canned or
chopped fruit; ½ cup (125ml) 99% unsweetened fruit juice; or 1½
tablespoons dried fruit).
One serve of vegetables is 75 grams (equal to ½ cup cooked vegetables; 1 medium potato; 1 cup of salad vegetables; or ½ cup cooked legumes (dried beans, peas or lentils).
One small glass of juice provides a child’s recommended daily amount of vitamin C. Unfortunately, many children regularly drink large amounts of juice and this can contribute to them putting on excess weight.
Children may need to try new fruits and vegies up to 10 times before they accept them. So stay patient and keep offering them. It can also help to prepare and serve them in different and creative ways.
Did you know?
- In NSW, close to 60% of children do not eat the recommended daily amount of vegetables.
- Research shows that watching a lot of TV is associated with children and teenagers drinking more soft drink and not eating enough fruit and vegetables.
- Fruit and vegetables are a great source of vitamins, minerals and dietary fibre.
- Eating fruit and vegetables every day helps children and teenagers grow and develop, boosts their vitality and can reduce the risk of many chronic diseases - such as heart disease, high blood pressure, some forms of cancer and being overweight or obese.
How many serves do kids and teens need?
All of us need to eat a variety of different coloured fruit and vegies every day – both raw and cooked. The recommended daily amount for kids and teens depends on their age, appetite and activity levels – see table below for recommended serves per day.Recommended daily serves of fruit and vegetables by age
| Age | Fruit | Vegetables |
| 4-7 | 1-2 | 2-4 |
| 8-11 | 1-2 | 3-5 |
| 12-18 | 3-4 | 4-9 |
One serve of vegetables is 75 grams (equal to ½ cup cooked vegetables; 1 medium potato; 1 cup of salad vegetables; or ½ cup cooked legumes (dried beans, peas or lentils).
Fresh fruit is a better choice than juice
While whole fruit contains some natural sugars that make it taste sweet, it also has lots of vitamins, minerals and fibre, which makes it more filling and nutritious than a glass of fruit juice.One small glass of juice provides a child’s recommended daily amount of vitamin C. Unfortunately, many children regularly drink large amounts of juice and this can contribute to them putting on excess weight.
How to help kids and teens eat more fruit and vegies
Eating more fruit and vegies every day can sometimes be a struggle. However, research shows that we’re more likely to do so if they’re available and ready to eat.Children may need to try new fruits and vegies up to 10 times before they accept them. So stay patient and keep offering them. It can also help to prepare and serve them in different and creative ways.
Some ideas to try:
- Involve the whole family in choosing and preparing fruit and vegies.
- Select fruit and vegies that are in season – they taste better and are usually cheaper.
- Keep a bowl of fresh fruit in the home.
- Be creative in how you prepare and serve fruit and vegetables - such as raw, sliced, grated, microwaved, mashed or baked; serve different coloured fruit and vegies or use different serving plates or bowls.
- Include fruit and vegies in every meal. For example, add chopped, grated or pureed vegetables to pasta sauces, meat burgers, frittatas, stir-fries and soups, and add fruit to breakfast cereal.
- Snack on fruit and vegies. Try corn on the cob; jacket potato topped with reduced fat cheese; plain popcorn (unbuttered and without sugar or salt coating); chopped vegies with salsa, hummus or yoghurt dips; stewed fruit; fruit crumble; frozen fruit; or muffins and cakes made with fruit or vegies.
- Try different fruits or vegies on your toast – banana, mushrooms or tomatoes.
- Add chopped or pureed fruit to plain yoghurts.
- Make a fruit smoothie with fresh, frozen or canned (in natural or unsweetened juice) fruit; blend it with reduced fat milk and yoghurt.
- Chop up some fruit or vegie sticks for the lunchbox.
- In summer, freeze fruit on a skewer (or mix with yoghurt before freezing) for a refreshing snack.
- Make fruit-based desserts (such as fruit crumble or baked, poached or stewed fruit) and serve with reduced fat custard.
- Have fresh fruit available at all times as a convenient snack – keep the fruit bowl full and have diced fruit in a container in the fridge.
~~~~~Sreenath Vanmelil
അബോര്ഷന് മനസ് തളരേണ്ട
Safety tips for Women (Must Read And Forward)
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Here are some safety tips for sisters:
1. Always be aware of your surroundings
This applies whether you are traveling alone or in groups. Dont just focus inwardly on your thoughts if you are alone, or your friends if you are together. Keep one eye out for your environment, looking out for suspicious characters, possible danger, etc.
Also, dont assume that because your area has been "safe" thus far, that it will continue to be so.
2. Travel in groups
"There is safety in numbers" is not just a cliche. Its true. Make a point of traveling together with other sisters, whether its on public transportation, on campus, in cars, etc.
3. Change the route you normally travel by
If youve taken the same bus, train or highway to get to work or school, change your route. Even if it takes you a little longer, your safety is more important. By changing your route, you can avert possible attacks or harassment from those who know your schedule, method and route of travel well. Please note though that you should avoid short cuts that take you through unfamiliar or unsafe areas.
4. Look confident
Walk with a straight posture and your arms swinging by your sides. Avoid slouching or walking like a victim. This makes you an easy target for attackers.
5. When riding by public transportation choose the right seat
If you are riding by bus or train, do not sit on the window seat as you may be "blocked in" by a potential assailant. Always select the seat next to the aisle so that you can quickly leave if necessary.
If you are taking public transportation alone after peak hours, sit as close to the driver as possible and/or choose the section of the bus/train that is most crowded. Try to get a seat near the exit as well.
6. If you are driving alone
Dont think that if you are in a car, youre safe. Windows should be up and doors locked even when driving to avoid unwanted passengers at intersections. When you are walking to your car, always have your keys ready, so that you can quickly get into your car.
But dont just get in right away. Always check your car before entering, especially the back, for any intruders.
7. Never leave your car door unlocked
Even if it means for one minute to drop something off in the mailbox thats a few feet away. Attackers have been known to lie in wait for such an opportunity.
8. Be careful in parking lots
Always be alert in parking lots, especially when it's dark. Ask someone to escort you to your car. Between cars and inside cars, it's easy for someone to hide and wait until an unalert person comes along.
9. If you are traveling by taxi
Always check the identification of the driver (usually located near the visor) and ensure that it matches the driver. Once inside, don't sit behind the driver as it may be easy for the driver to lock the rear passenger door. Always choose the adjacent seat .
In addition, avoid flagging taxis. Always order taxis so the driver can be traced if something happens.
10. Dont use the walkman
If youre used to listening to your walkman while outside, drop this habit, especially in isolated areas. With your walkman on, you cannot hear the approach of a possible attacker.
11. Note "safe houses" along your route
Mentally note houses at intervals on each route you take that can be used as "safe houses" if you are attacked, such as shops or houses that you know to be occupied by a friend or acquaintance.
12. When you make a call from a phone booth
After dialing the number you wish to call always turn around so that you have your back to the phone and may see who or what is coming your way. You will then be able to tell the person to whom you are speaking that you may be in trouble and you may be able to use the weight of the phone as a weapon. The door of a telephone box could be used to wedge in the limbs of the attacker.
13. Do not open the door of your home without checking
DO NOT open the door to your home without first checking from a window, peephole or by asking and verifying who it is. Instruct children to do the same.
14. Report any suspicious activity around your home
If you see people loitering on the streets near your house, call the police on a non emergency number and report it.
15. Invest in a cell phone
This is an invaluable safety device. Keep it with you at all times and keep emergency numbers on it. Also, keep it next to your bed before you go to bed at night. Cell phones were first popularized by women as a security device, business people came later.
16. Parking tips
Avoid parking in areas that are not well lit. Where possible, park close to a school or work entrance or in a parking garage that has an attendant.
If you see a suspicious person approaching or hanging around near your parked car, turn around and go back to an area where there are other people. Try to get an escort to your car through the campus or job security or local police.
17. Tell others about your whereabouts
Parents, spouses and friends should know where you are going and when you will be back, so that your absence will be noticed. Arrange a call in system with a friend if you live alone, whereby you call when you arrive home.
18. Trust your instincts
If you are walking somewhere and feel strange or scared, dont ignore this feeling. Take extra precautions by walking a little faster to get to a more populated or well-lit area or change the route youve been driving on.
19. If you think you are being followed, change your route and activity.
You can cross the street, change directions, or enter a populated building or store. Do whatever is necessary to avoid being alone with the person who is following you. Inform a police officer or security official about the
follower.
20. Attract attention if you are in a dangerous situation.
Get others to pay attention to what's happening to you if you are under attack or being harassed. You can alert others by honking a car horn or loudly describing what is happening.
21. NEVER admit that you are alone
If someone calls your home and asks if you are alone, NEVER admit it. Ask who the caller is. If they refuse to identify themselves, calmly hangup. Keep the radio on in the house so that callers will get the impression that others are in the home too. Instruct children to do the same when they pick up the phone.
22. Obscene phone calls
If you receive an obscene call or a crank call, do not talk to the caller. Hang up if the caller doesnt say anything, or as soon as s/he shouts obscenities. Hang up the phone calmly and do not slam it down. Note down the date and time of the calls. If they are persistent, inform local police.
23. If you are a student
Avoid studying in isolated classrooms in parts of the college campus that are not regularly patrolled by the schools security officers.
24. In large buildings take the elevator, not the stairwell
Stairwells are usually quiet and dark. Most people take the elevator. But if someone creepy gets on, dont hesitate to get off at the same time. Or, if someone is already on the elevator who you feel strange about, do not get on and wait for the next elevator.
1. Always be aware of your surroundings
This applies whether you are traveling alone or in groups. Dont just focus inwardly on your thoughts if you are alone, or your friends if you are together. Keep one eye out for your environment, looking out for suspicious characters, possible danger, etc.
Also, dont assume that because your area has been "safe" thus far, that it will continue to be so.
2. Travel in groups
"There is safety in numbers" is not just a cliche. Its true. Make a point of traveling together with other sisters, whether its on public transportation, on campus, in cars, etc.
3. Change the route you normally travel by
If youve taken the same bus, train or highway to get to work or school, change your route. Even if it takes you a little longer, your safety is more important. By changing your route, you can avert possible attacks or harassment from those who know your schedule, method and route of travel well. Please note though that you should avoid short cuts that take you through unfamiliar or unsafe areas.
4. Look confident
Walk with a straight posture and your arms swinging by your sides. Avoid slouching or walking like a victim. This makes you an easy target for attackers.
5. When riding by public transportation choose the right seat
If you are riding by bus or train, do not sit on the window seat as you may be "blocked in" by a potential assailant. Always select the seat next to the aisle so that you can quickly leave if necessary.
If you are taking public transportation alone after peak hours, sit as close to the driver as possible and/or choose the section of the bus/train that is most crowded. Try to get a seat near the exit as well.
6. If you are driving alone
Dont think that if you are in a car, youre safe. Windows should be up and doors locked even when driving to avoid unwanted passengers at intersections. When you are walking to your car, always have your keys ready, so that you can quickly get into your car.
But dont just get in right away. Always check your car before entering, especially the back, for any intruders.
7. Never leave your car door unlocked
Even if it means for one minute to drop something off in the mailbox thats a few feet away. Attackers have been known to lie in wait for such an opportunity.
8. Be careful in parking lots
Always be alert in parking lots, especially when it's dark. Ask someone to escort you to your car. Between cars and inside cars, it's easy for someone to hide and wait until an unalert person comes along.
9. If you are traveling by taxi
Always check the identification of the driver (usually located near the visor) and ensure that it matches the driver. Once inside, don't sit behind the driver as it may be easy for the driver to lock the rear passenger door. Always choose the adjacent seat .
In addition, avoid flagging taxis. Always order taxis so the driver can be traced if something happens.
10. Dont use the walkman
If youre used to listening to your walkman while outside, drop this habit, especially in isolated areas. With your walkman on, you cannot hear the approach of a possible attacker.
11. Note "safe houses" along your route
Mentally note houses at intervals on each route you take that can be used as "safe houses" if you are attacked, such as shops or houses that you know to be occupied by a friend or acquaintance.
12. When you make a call from a phone booth
After dialing the number you wish to call always turn around so that you have your back to the phone and may see who or what is coming your way. You will then be able to tell the person to whom you are speaking that you may be in trouble and you may be able to use the weight of the phone as a weapon. The door of a telephone box could be used to wedge in the limbs of the attacker.
13. Do not open the door of your home without checking
DO NOT open the door to your home without first checking from a window, peephole or by asking and verifying who it is. Instruct children to do the same.
14. Report any suspicious activity around your home
If you see people loitering on the streets near your house, call the police on a non emergency number and report it.
15. Invest in a cell phone
This is an invaluable safety device. Keep it with you at all times and keep emergency numbers on it. Also, keep it next to your bed before you go to bed at night. Cell phones were first popularized by women as a security device, business people came later.
16. Parking tips
Avoid parking in areas that are not well lit. Where possible, park close to a school or work entrance or in a parking garage that has an attendant.
If you see a suspicious person approaching or hanging around near your parked car, turn around and go back to an area where there are other people. Try to get an escort to your car through the campus or job security or local police.
17. Tell others about your whereabouts
Parents, spouses and friends should know where you are going and when you will be back, so that your absence will be noticed. Arrange a call in system with a friend if you live alone, whereby you call when you arrive home.
18. Trust your instincts
If you are walking somewhere and feel strange or scared, dont ignore this feeling. Take extra precautions by walking a little faster to get to a more populated or well-lit area or change the route youve been driving on.
19. If you think you are being followed, change your route and activity.
You can cross the street, change directions, or enter a populated building or store. Do whatever is necessary to avoid being alone with the person who is following you. Inform a police officer or security official about the
follower.
20. Attract attention if you are in a dangerous situation.
Get others to pay attention to what's happening to you if you are under attack or being harassed. You can alert others by honking a car horn or loudly describing what is happening.
21. NEVER admit that you are alone
If someone calls your home and asks if you are alone, NEVER admit it. Ask who the caller is. If they refuse to identify themselves, calmly hangup. Keep the radio on in the house so that callers will get the impression that others are in the home too. Instruct children to do the same when they pick up the phone.
22. Obscene phone calls
If you receive an obscene call or a crank call, do not talk to the caller. Hang up if the caller doesnt say anything, or as soon as s/he shouts obscenities. Hang up the phone calmly and do not slam it down. Note down the date and time of the calls. If they are persistent, inform local police.
23. If you are a student
Avoid studying in isolated classrooms in parts of the college campus that are not regularly patrolled by the schools security officers.
24. In large buildings take the elevator, not the stairwell
Stairwells are usually quiet and dark. Most people take the elevator. But if someone creepy gets on, dont hesitate to get off at the same time. Or, if someone is already on the elevator who you feel strange about, do not get on and wait for the next elevator.
~~~~~Sreenath Vanmelil
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